網紅的藏寶箱Loveee this post so much!! And it’s true, it actually applies for pretty much all types of relationships. For whatever reason that we can’t do this for the people in our lives or they can do it with us, i thought this was so lovely in showing that this is possible. These types of relationships EXIST. This can happen!! Both sides can express an emotion, a need, an opinion, a desire, whatever, we can be open without being _scared_ that we are too much, that we wont belittle each other, we can do it without having to walk on eggshells.
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Im not sure how u guys feel when reading this, but for those who feel like all these things are being very “demanding” and “high maintenance”, I can relate!! Even if you would do this for other people, you might feel like you yourself are a “diva” for wanting basic human respect and decency. Interesting, huh? What i wonder these days, is where did we learn that these very basic things were asking for too much? Why does voicing something, or setting boundaries feel so damn uncomfortable? I mean, nobody needs to say yes just because we ask. They are alwaays allowed to say no. Fascinating, isnt it, that healthy relationships feel so “demanding”?
Sending u all lots of love for the week ahead!!
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